Have I ever told you?

Have I ever told you that my husband is SUCH a good man? He pays attention to me, he listens to me, he even holds my hand in public... But wait folks the good deeds don't stop there. He tries, just as I do to make myself better everyday... So I am not sure why Sunday surprised me so much. Everyone who knows me knows I have a problem. I bite my nails, almost ferociously so. (Kinda gross, I am well aware...) Well the company pays for pens, so I have an endless supply... and in order to keep my figity self from going crazy I chew on a different pen, just about everyday... Knowingly my husband saw me chewing on a pen in church. He is a creative man, and being so he reached over, grabbed my pen and smiled- and stuck the pen up his left nostril. I sat there stunned. One, my husband just stuck a pen up his nose in public, two that was my pen that I planned on chowing down on for the next hour and three, can I get an EW anyone?! So, long story short, I am now cured of this ailment and no longer chew on pens, nor do I cost my company anymore money. My husband is my lifesaver, and probably saved Johnson Mark from bankruptcy. Wow. My own personal superman! I do love him so!

Love- through the eyes of a teenagers blog...

one of the hardest parts about growing up is realizing that relationships are not as magical or as effortless that we, as children, so naively believed they were.

love is not all about red roses on valentine's day, or waltzing in an empty room to no music. it is not always comprised of sexy, passionate kisses in the rain, or romantic candlelit dinners.

love does not always equal that perfect, pristine wedding on the beach, no matter how much we wish it did.

no, sometimes love is broken dishes on the floor, and tempers so high they threaten to burst through the ceiling. it is not that prince charming or a snow white. it is loneliness echoing and aching deep inside your bones and it is the feeling of tears drying on your face like wax.

love is not disney. love is complicated. love is messy.

when i was younger, i believed that you could title a loved one. oh, she's his fiance. oh, they're boyfriend and girlfriend. oh, he's her husband. it is only now, as a teenager, that i realize this is not how love works. there is not a name to fit every relationship...

we keep convincing ourselves that our happiness lies on one set of lips, that our lives would be beachy if we just managed to receive one kiss, or one wedding, or one boyfriend. (Which in some cases, happiness does lie with one man. In my case that's Sky... Through and through...)

but love isn't about kisses or weddings or titles. (it gets harder- you better believe it!)

it's about how much you care, how long you will listen, how far you will go and to what lengths you will forgive.

the bottom line is, if you truly, deeply and honestly love someone, you will want them in your life, and you will do everything to keep them there.

~thegingergirl

This made me think about the idea that the youth of this nation are getting about relationships. How bleak is this opinion, and how depressing. I have found that my love, my happiness lies with one man. Although this youth things that it lies with many. Although friends are important, how great, to me... does a life sound with just MY Skyler. No one else's. I don't want to share, and I don't feel any woman should want to. I wish there was a way to talk to this young girl to know exactly what she thought. I have found my prince charming I hope she looks, and finds hers.

This made me think of my hunny...

Isn't it interesting the articles you find that tug on your heart strings? This article is about people that come in and out of your life, and in this case in and stay. This makes me think about Skyler, and all the other family and friends I hold dear. (I am cheesy I know, but it was sweet so I thought I would share!)
Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be (possibly your roommate, neighbour, co-worker, longest friend, lover, or even a complete stranger) but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.

Some people come into our lives and quickly go.
Some people move our souls to dance.
They awaken us to new understanding with the passing whisper of their wisdom.
Some people make the sky more beautiful to gaze upon.
They stay in our lives for awhile, leave footprints in our hearts,
and We are never, ever the same.

And sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realised your potential, strength, willpower, or heart. Everything happens for a reason, nothing happens by chance or by means of luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless. The people you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls you experience help to create who you become.

Even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones.

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.

Make every day count!! Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love, break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself; it will be hard for others to believe in you.

You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets.